{"id":51793,"date":"2019-12-29T16:22:34","date_gmt":"2019-12-29T12:52:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nasimword.ir\/?p=51793"},"modified":"2019-12-29T16:22:34","modified_gmt":"2019-12-29T12:52:34","slug":"evliligimiz-bu-yuzyilda-nasil-gidebilirse-oyle-gidiyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nasimword.ir\/?p=51793&lang=tr","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Evlili\u011fimiz bu y\u00fczy\u0131lda nas\u0131l gidebilirse \u00f6yle gidiyor!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p dir=\"ltr\">Atiye dizisi ile ekranlara geri d\u00f6nen Beren Saat H\u00fcrriyet Gazetesi&#8217;nden Hakan Gence ile dizi ve \u00f6zel hayat\u0131 hakk\u0131nda samimi a\u00e7\u0131klamalarda bulundu.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><a href=\"http:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/54498.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-51796\" src=\"http:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/54498.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"670\" height=\"335\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/54498.jpg 670w, https:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/54498-300x150.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 670px) 100vw, 670px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Son olarak Netflix&#8217;teki Atiye dizisiyle seyirciyle bulu\u015fan oyuncu Beren Saat, H\u00fcrriyet&#8217;e yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamalarda, &#8220;\u00dclkenin muhafazak\u00e2r bir duru\u015fu olabilir, mant\u0131kl\u0131 bir yol da pek\u00e2l\u00e2 bulunabilir. Zaten herkes eri\u015fmek istedi\u011fi \u015feye eri\u015fiyor. Bunu yalan s\u00f6yleyerek ya da do\u011frudan yapmak aras\u0131nda \u00fclkenin ideolojik bir se\u00e7im yapmas\u0131 gerek&#8221; dedi.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Netflix&#8217;in ikinci T\u00fcrk dizisi &#8216;Atiye&#8217; cuma g\u00fcn\u00fc yay\u0131nland\u0131. Dizinin ba\u015frollerinden Beren Saat, H\u00fcrriyet gazetesinden Hakan Gence&#8217;ye verdi\u011fi r\u00f6portajda yeni dizisine, hayat\u0131na, \u00fclkeye ve sosyal medyaya dair a\u00e7\u0131klamalarda bulundu. Saat r\u00f6portaj\u0131n\u0131n bir k\u0131sm\u0131 \u015fu \u015fekilde:<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<strong>Neden izole oldunuz?<\/strong><br \/>\nSokaklarda ter\u00f6r varken, hepimizin kendini d\u0131\u015far\u0131daki hayattan geri \u00e7ekti\u011fi bir d\u00f6nem oldu. \u0130nsanlar daha \u00e7ok evlerde toplan\u0131p e\u011flenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131; daha \u00e7ok okur, izler, fikir ve proje \u00fcretir hale geldi. \u00dcnl\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn de dayatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu izole olma halini sevdim. Kendi kendime ne kadar \u00e7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011frenebildi\u011fimi g\u00f6r\u00fcnce kendimle kalmay\u0131 se\u00e7tim. \u0130leride daha fazla payla\u015faca\u011f\u0131m baz\u0131 yarat\u0131m s\u00fcre\u00e7lerine girmeye ba\u015flad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Mesela ne gibi?<\/strong><br \/>\nYoga yapmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m, meditasyonla hayat\u0131m de\u011fi\u015fti. Evrenle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k, ak\u0131\u015fla uyum i\u00e7inde olman\u0131n yolunun meditasyon oldu\u011funa uyand\u0131m. Kenan\u2019la (Do\u011fulu) sekizinci senemiz. \u0130ster istemez hayat\u0131mda m\u00fczikal bir tav\u0131r olu\u015fmaya, bana da \u015fark\u0131lar gelmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. O st\u00fcdyoda \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, arkas\u0131nda sabahlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m gecelerden kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fczik program\u0131na a\u015finayd\u0131m. \u0130lk acemi demomu yap\u0131p kafamda d\u00f6nen melodiyi dinletebilince \u00fczerine \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131k. \u0130lk \u015fark\u0131 epeyce \u015fekillendi. M\u00fczikal bir habitatta olman\u0131n de\u011ferini bilip, ufak ufak enstr\u00fcmanlar\u0131 g\u0131d\u0131klay\u0131p, Kenan\u2019a \u00e7\u0131rakl\u0131k edip hayat\u0131m\u0131n geri kalan\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6ncekinden farkl\u0131 hayaller kuruyorum.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>\u2018Atiye\u2019 size nas\u0131l geldi?<\/strong><br \/>\nG\u00fczel bir nefes alma, oksijene eri\u015fim alan\u0131 oldu. \u201cBundan sonra ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d, \u201cSekt\u00f6r\u00fcn geldi\u011fi bu ko\u015fullarda kendimi nas\u0131l ifade edece\u011fim\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken \u00e7ok fazla k\u00f6\u015feye s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m zamanlar olmu\u015ftu. \u2018Atiye\u2019 tam bu noktada bana g\u00fczel bir yol arkada\u015f\u0131 oldu.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Sizi bu kadar cezbeden i\u015f ne anlat\u0131yor?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><a href=\"http:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/5e0766242269a21c8809d87f-pihQ.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-51794\" src=\"http:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/5e0766242269a21c8809d87f-pihQ.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"770\" height=\"611\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/5e0766242269a21c8809d87f-pihQ.jpg 770w, https:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/5e0766242269a21c8809d87f-pihQ-300x238.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/5e0766242269a21c8809d87f-pihQ-768x609.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 770px) 100vw, 770px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n\u2018Atiye\u2019 \u0130stanbullu bir ressam, sanat\u0131yla ili\u015fkisi biraz farkl\u0131 ve cesur. \u00c7ocuklu\u011fundan beri ne oldu\u011funu tan\u0131mlayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir sembol\u00fc \u00e7iziyor. Bu sembol onun ressam olmas\u0131n\u0131n da sebebi. G\u00f6beklitepe\u2019de sergisiyle e\u015fzamanl\u0131 bir ke\u015fif ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Kaz\u0131larda \u00e7ekilen foto\u011fraflarda hayat\u0131n\u0131 adad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sembol\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcyor. Sembol i\u00e7in \u015eanl\u0131urfa\u2019ya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yol, onu hem \u2018kolektif bilin\u00e7\u2019 cevab\u0131na hem de hen\u00fcz fark\u0131nda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015famanik g\u00fc\u00e7lerini ke\u015ffetmeye ula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<strong>Dizinin fonunda sanat ve arkeoloji b\u00fcy\u00fck yer tutuyor. \u00d6nceden arkeolojiye ilginiz var m\u0131yd\u0131?<\/strong><br \/>\n\u00d6zel bir ilgim yoktu, tam da \u2018Atiye\u2019 gibi. Bu a\u00e7\u0131dan \u00e7ok fazla \u00f6n haz\u0131rl\u0131k da yapmad\u0131m, \u2018Atiye\u2019nin ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131na paralel bir \u015feyleri deneyimlemek istedim.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>G\u00f6beklitepe\u2019de \u00e7ekimleriniz oldu. Daha \u00f6nce gitmi\u015f miydiniz?<\/strong><br \/>\nHay\u0131r. \u00c7ekim i\u00e7in gitti\u011fimizde \u00f6nce ufak bir f\u0131rt\u0131na, sonra harika bir g\u00fcnbat\u0131m\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131k. G\u00f6beklitepe bizi, ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc bir renk skalas\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\nG\u00f6beklitepe kal\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 bize d\u00fcnya tarihi hakk\u0131nda fikir veriyor. Peki bundan binlerce y\u0131l sonra, bir kaz\u0131da bug\u00fcn\u00fcn T\u00fcrkiye\u2019sine ula\u015fsalar&#8230; Sizce arkeologlar bizi nas\u0131l yorumlar?<br \/>\nB\u00fct\u00fcn topra\u011f\u0131 neden betonla \u00f6rtt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlard\u0131 ve \u2018Anadolu\u2019nun Beton D\u00f6nemi\u2019 olarak tan\u0131mlarlard\u0131 san\u0131r\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>\u2018Atiye\u2019, dijital i\u00e7in yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ilk i\u015f. Dijitalin getirdi\u011fi \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck alan\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlat\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z?<\/strong><br \/>\nOlmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi, \u00e7ok da ekstra bir \u015fey yok.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<strong>Nas\u0131l yani?<\/strong><br \/>\nBizde sans\u00fcr, olmas\u0131 gerekeni k\u0131s\u0131tlam\u0131\u015f durumda. \u201cA bu sahnede cinsel bir i\u00e7erik var m\u0131?\u201d, \u201c\u00d6p\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorlar m\u0131?\u201d, \u201cBunu b\u00f6yle yazarsak ne olur?\u201d gibi korkular ya\u015famadan, olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi yerden hik\u00e2yeleri \u00e7ekebiliyoruz. Yoksa \u201cBiz \u00f6zg\u00fcr\u00fcz\u201d diyerek \u00e7ok ekstrem \u015feyler ya\u015fanm\u0131yor.<br \/>\n<strong>Peki dijitalin de denetim alt\u0131na girecek olmas\u0131 konusunda ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsunuz?<\/strong><br \/>\nTabii ki birtak\u0131m \u00f6nlemler al\u0131nabilir. Ama bu tip bir denetim, do\u011fal afetle m\u00fccadele etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak gibi&#8230;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<strong>Neden?<\/strong><br \/>\nT\u00fcrkiye\u2019de sans\u00fcr konusunda epey grotesk inatla\u015fmalar ya\u015fand\u0131. Twitter\u2019\u0131n kapat\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcndeme gelmesi, Wikipedia\u2019ya ula\u015f\u0131lam\u0131yor olmas\u0131&#8230; Ama insanlar, gen\u00e7ler bast\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131k\u00e7a birtak\u0131m ba\u015fka \u2018VPN\u2019 adresleriyle ba\u011flanmaya devam etti. Ve b\u00f6yle kararlar \u00fclke ad\u0131na sadece utan\u00e7 kararlar\u0131 olmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. \u00dclkenin muhafazak\u00e2r bir duru\u015fu olabilir, mant\u0131kl\u0131 bir yol da pek\u00e2l\u00e2 bulunabilir.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Yazl\u0131k bir mek\u00e2nda e\u011flenirken fark\u0131nda olmadan \u00e7ekilen videonuz bir anda b\u00fct\u00fcn sosyal medya sitelerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. \u0130yi yorumlar kadar k\u00f6t\u00fcleri de yap\u0131l\u0131yor. Sosyal medya ter\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fayan biri olarak bu konuda ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsunuz?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n\u015eimdi yine iyi zamanlar&#8230; \u0130nsanlar\u0131n birbirine nefret dolu oldu\u011fu, hakaret etme c\u00fcretinde bulundu\u011fu \u00e7ok sert zamanlardan ge\u00e7tik. \u00d6tekinden nefret etmek, toplan\u0131p bir ki\u015finin \u00fczerine sald\u0131rmak yani dijital anlamda trollemek&#8230; Ve bu \u00fclkenin tonu oldu. Sonra onun sokaklardaki \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma halini g\u00f6r\u00fcnce galiba durumun vahameti anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131. Art\u0131k \u00fclkenin liderlerinin biraz daha yap\u0131c\u0131 bir tavra ge\u00e7mesiyle o yaralar\u0131 biraz tedavi ettik.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<strong>Ama \u201c\u00dcnl\u00fcl\u00fck bir hapishane\u201d diye de bir laf\u0131n\u0131z var&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\nBir noktadan sonra bunalt\u0131c\u0131 bir d\u00f6nemi oluyor. Ana ak\u0131m kendi ikonla\u015ft\u0131raca\u011f\u0131 ki\u015fileri se\u00e7iyor. Ne kadar \u201cBen bunun uza\u011f\u0131nda, ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z duraca\u011f\u0131m\u201d deseniz de sizin tercih hakk\u0131n\u0131z olmuyor. Bu sebeple \u00f6n\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131kan\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yor, hayat\u0131n\u0131 ona g\u00f6re forma sokuyorsun. Gidebildi\u011fin yerler k\u0131s\u0131tlan\u0131yor, seninle ortak paydas\u0131 olan insanlarla ba\u015fka dostluklar\u0131n oluyor.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<strong>Mesle\u011fe ba\u015flarken \u00fcnl\u00fc olmak ne kadar \u00f6nceli\u011finizdi?<\/strong><br \/>\nHi\u00e7. Benim hayalim beyazperdede olmakt\u0131. \u00c7ocukken de kendi kendime hep bir drama at\u00f6lyesi halinde, okudu\u011fum \u00e7ocuk romanlar\u0131n\u0131 oynuyormu\u015fum. Asl\u0131nda insan hayattaki y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc, yarat\u0131l\u0131\u015ftan gelen reflekslerle buluyor.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<strong>Hi\u00e7 pi\u015fman oldunuz mu?<\/strong><br \/>\n\u201cBuraya kadarm\u0131\u015f, ben art\u0131k yapamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d noktas\u0131na geldi\u011fim g\u00fcnlerde bile asla bu mesle\u011fi se\u00e7ti\u011fime pi\u015fman olmad\u0131m. Hep bu i\u015fin en karanl\u0131k g\u00fcn\u00fc bug\u00fcnse iyi ki bu mesle\u011fi yap\u0131yor ve bunu ya\u015f\u0131yorum diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.<br \/>\n<strong>ERKEKLER ERGENL\u0130\u011e\u0130N\u0130 A\u015eAMADI\u011eI S\u00dcRECE KADINLARIN YAPAB\u0130LECE\u011e\u0130 B\u0130R \u015eEY YOK<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Neredeyse her g\u00fcn bir kad\u0131n \u015fiddeti ve taciz haberine uyan\u0131yoruz&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\nBunlar sans\u00fcrlemek ve cinselli\u011fe fazla tak\u0131lmakla nefret k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn birle\u015fti\u011fi yer. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcn\u00fcn g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcze her \u015feyi yapabilece\u011fini kendine hak g\u00f6rmesi. Ve bu cinayetleri i\u015fleyen insanlar\u0131n kendi \u00e7evrelerinde bir kahramanl\u0131kla kutsand\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Bu sebeple konu\u015fulan her seferde birilerini biraz daha y\u00fcreklendirmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc bug\u00fcn\u00fcn sohbet konusunda olamayacak bir erkek, sadece birine zarar verdi\u011fi i\u00e7in \u015fu an konu\u015fuluyor.<br \/>\n<strong>\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm ne olabilir o halde?<\/strong><br \/>\nBu art\u0131k \u015fahsi \u00e7abalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00e7ok a\u015fan bir durum. K\u0131sa vadede \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm ancak devlet otoritesi olabilir. K\u0131saca t\u00fcm vatanda\u015flar\u0131na e\u015fit mesafede olmal\u0131lar. Son y\u0131llarda televizyon ekranlar\u0131nda da sinemada da \u00e7o\u011funlukla edilgen bir T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131 fig\u00fcr\u00fc tercih ediliyor ama mesela \u2018Atiye\u2019 bu anlamda ezberimizi bozacak bir hik\u00e2ye. Umar\u0131m onun uyan\u0131\u015f\u0131 pek \u00e7ok kad\u0131na ilham verir.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><a href=\"http:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/80604066_153696352632670_8895918078643290152_n.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-51795\" src=\"http:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/80604066_153696352632670_8895918078643290152_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/80604066_153696352632670_8895918078643290152_n.jpg 640w, https:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/80604066_153696352632670_8895918078643290152_n-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/nasimword.ir\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/80604066_153696352632670_8895918078643290152_n-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<strong>E\u011fer \u2018Beren Saat\u2019 isen erkek egemen o d\u00fcnyaya 1-0 \u00f6nde mi ba\u015flars\u0131n?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de hi\u00e7bir kad\u0131n, hi\u00e7bir \u015feye 1-0 \u00f6nde ba\u015flayamaz. Her zaman kad\u0131n olmak daha zor. B\u00fct\u00fcn sekt\u00f6rlerde kad\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131m her zaman erkeklerden daha fazla \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, \u00e7arp\u0131\u015fmak zorunda. Hi\u00e7bir meslekta\u015f\u0131m\u0131n sette m\u00fcthi\u015f bir cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zannetmiyorum. Erkekler ergenli\u011fini a\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece kad\u0131nlar\u0131n yapabilece\u011fi bir \u015fey yok. D\u00fcnyan\u0131n bir\u00e7ok yerinde de bunlar ya\u015fan\u0131yor. As\u0131l sorun erkek meselesini ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Ne yapaca\u011f\u0131z?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u0130\u015f, \u201cG\u00f6ster o\u011flum amcalara\u201d ile ba\u015fl\u0131yor. S\u00fcnnet dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey bir \u2018ben\u2019 ald\u0131rmak kadar basit bir operasyonken \u00fczerine bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn organize ediyorsunuz. O \u00e7ocu\u011fun ve b\u00fct\u00fcn sosyal \u00e7evresinin, bedeninin bir organ\u0131na y\u00fckledi\u011fi anlam bir anda de\u011fi\u015fiyor. Sonra bu organ\u0131n\u0131 bir g\u00fc\u00e7 unsuru olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyor, kad\u0131n ona raz\u0131 olmad\u0131 diye \u00f6ld\u00fcrebilecek kadar ona anlam y\u00fckl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<strong>Haluk Bilginer \u201cBu d\u00fcnya erkeklerden ar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131. Yok edelim demiyorum ama erkek iktidar\u0131n\u0131 yok edelim\u201d demi\u015fti. Kat\u0131l\u0131yor musunuz?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n\u0130\u015fte erkek egemen toplum, halimiz ortada. Erkek egemen ve olmad\u0131. Beceremediler. \u015eimdi bunu biraz de\u011fi\u015ftirmek laz\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Evlili\u011finiz nas\u0131l gidiyor?<\/strong><br \/>\nHer evlilik gibi. Bu y\u00fczy\u0131lda nas\u0131l gidebilirse \u00f6yle.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Son be\u015f y\u0131lda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f, a\u015fka bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda neler de\u011fi\u015ftirdi?<\/strong><br \/>\nAsl\u0131nda a\u015fk\u0131n tan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n bu y\u00fczy\u0131lda de\u011fi\u015fmesi gerekiyor.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Nas\u0131l?<\/strong><br \/>\nBiz analog ile dijital aras\u0131nda s\u0131k\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir nesiliz. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde yeni neslin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u015fk formuyla, \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzda bize Disney filmlerinin \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fi romantizm aras\u0131nda da s\u0131k\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f vaziyetteyiz. Yani a\u015fk bir \u015fekilde bi\u00e7im de\u011fi\u015ftiriyor.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<strong>Nereye evriliyor?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Tam olarak n\u2019olacak bilmiyorum ama evlilikler k\u0131sa s\u00fcr\u00fcyor. \u00d6te yandan sosyal medya y\u00fcz\u00fcnden ili\u015fkiler bitemiyor. Eskiden insanlar birbirini g\u00f6rmeyince unutur, hayat\u0131na devam ederdi. \u015eimdi g\u00f6rmemek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil, o y\u00fczden eski ili\u015fkiler yeniden alevleniyor ama art\u0131k sadakat beklentisi olmayan bir hal al\u0131yor. \u00d6zg\u00fcr bir birey olmak, \u00e7ift olmaktan daha pop\u00fcler hale geldi. B\u00fct\u00fcn bu fakt\u00f6rler \u2018sonsuza kadar mutlu ya\u015fad\u0131lar\u2019 konseptine inanmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayan yeni nesiller yaratacak tabii ki.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<strong>Evlendi\u011finize hi\u00e7 pi\u015fman oldunuz mu?<\/strong><br \/>\nHay\u0131r, hi\u00e7 pi\u015fman olmad\u0131m, biz \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir a\u015fk ya\u015fad\u0131k. Anlam\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6nemini \u015fu an ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z s\u00fcre\u00e7te daha \u00e7ok fark ediyorum. \u0130li\u015fkimiz ba\u015fka bir forma evrildi. Art\u0131k ba\u015fka tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131m\u0131z, ba\u015fka zihni ortakl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z var.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<strong>\u00a0Peki b\u00fct\u00fcn bu konu\u015ftuklar\u0131m\u0131zdan sonra bu d\u00fcnyaya \u00e7ocuk getirmek ister misiniz?<\/strong><br \/>\nAnneli\u011fi ya\u015famak isterim. Konuya d\u00fcnya ko\u015fullar\u0131ndan uzakla\u015farak bakarsak; e\u011fitimi ne olacak, nerede ya\u015famal\u0131, illa benim genimden mi olmal\u0131 gibi sorular var. Bir s\u00fcr\u00fc \u00e7ocuk annesiz, babas\u0131z sokakta; Suriyeli \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yard\u0131ma ihtiyac\u0131 var. Bu y\u00fczden biraz daha yukar\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p duruma oradan bakmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Atiye dizisi ile ekranlara geri d\u00f6nen Beren Saat H\u00fcrriyet Gazetesi&#8217;nden Hakan Gence ile dizi ve \u00f6zel hayat\u0131 hakk\u0131nda samimi a\u00e7\u0131klamalarda bulundu. Son olarak Netflix&#8217;teki Atiye dizisiyle seyirciyle bulu\u015fan oyuncu Beren Saat, H\u00fcrriyet&#8217;e yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamalarda, &#8220;\u00dclkenin muhafazak\u00e2r bir duru\u015fu olabilir, mant\u0131kl\u0131 bir yol da pek\u00e2l\u00e2 bulunabilir. 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