Glamour U.K.’s new cover story focuses on the serious bond “Game of Thrones” besties Sophie Turner and Maisie Williams forged over the course of years of working together. There’s another connection the piece explores, too, and that’s Sophie’s relationship with her fiance, Joe Jonas, who she says helped her figure out who she was. “I think for the longest time I didn’t have a real sense of myself,” she says. “I had a bit of an identity crisis where I was playing all these people and I’d grown up faster than I probably should have done. I hadn’t been able to experience university, or just spend a lot of time with friends, so for a while, I kept thinking, ‘Who am I?'” The 23-year-old says she began to understand the answer to that question after she started dating Joe in the fall of 2016. “A lot of [my happiness now] is to do with being with a person I’ve fallen in love with, who loves me more than he loves himself, and who wants to see me find my own happiness,” she says. “That was probably the biggest thing that pushed me to find who I am — and find my happiness in things other than acting.” Joe and Sophie are reportedly planning to wed this summer.